If you want to have success then you
need to know what success means to you - how can you succeed at something if
you don't actually know what it is!
So that's my first question - what is
success to you?
Have
a think about this quote...
Success is where
preparation and opportunity meet - Bobby Usher
What do you do to prepare - how much
time each week do you give to your physical training, now think about how much
time you actively give to your mental strategies...? I'm going to suggest it's
no-where near as much...
... and then opportunities...
How do you recognise opportunities..? By
being really clear about your outcome
Think about what you want to
achieve. You might find yourself
actually thinking about all the things you 'don't' want to happen and that's
fine, write them down and get them out of your system. You can then write down what it is you 'do'
want. This outcome must be a positive
one and one that only you can deliver - in other words completely in your
control.
At this point we are not looking at how we are going to achieve this but what
Once you've defined what you want to
achieve, take a moment, think about what it will be like when you have achieved
it, what can you see that you are doing and what is happening around you, what
can you hear yourself saying (out loud or in your head) and what are others saying,
and how do you feel. Write or draw these
thoughts down as well
This is making our outcome sensory
specific. When we do that we are helping
our brain understand what it is we want to achieve and it will then start to
work towards that.
Once you have all this written down,
recheck it, is there anything missing that you want to add in, is this still
the outcome you want? You'd be surprised
how many times we think we 'should' have a specific outcome, only when we look
at it in detail we realise it isn't what we actually 'want'. The outcome needs to be one we desire!
Once our brain knows what it is we
want, it will look for the opportunities to deliver it and if we are preparing
well then success will follow.
One important key to
success is self-confidence. An important
key to self-confidence is preparation - Arthur Ashe
and remember...
Over the coming weeks I'm going to
writing about different areas of mental strategies and give you some specific
ways of training your brain.
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